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  • The Mirror of Church Hypocrisy – 3

    The Mirror of Church Hypocrisy – 3

    Therefore you have no excuse, O christian…

    Do you suppose, O christian… —that you will escape the judgment of God?

    Or do you presume on the riches of his kindness and forbearance and patience, not knowing that God’s kindness is meant to lead you to repentance?

    But because of your hard and impenitent heart you are storing up wrath for yourself on the day of wrath when God’s righteous judgment will be revealed.

    He will render to each one according to his works:

    Dear unfaithful sister in the Lord — dear unrepentant brother in the Lord:

    Do these verses from Romans 2 look vaguely familiar? (I only changed one word: ‘man‘ to ‘christian,’ meaning apostate, former worshiper of Jesus Christ.

    Will YOU be convicted by the letter to the church at Rome? (Yes, we know that these words were written for unbelievers.)

    The world cannot differentiate our hypocrisy from their sins.

    REPENT!

    Romans 1

    English Standard Version (ESV)

    “The righteous shall live by faith.”

    God’s Wrath on Unrighteousness

    18 For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who by their unrighteousness suppress the truth.

    O, dear christian, how we suppress the truth of our sin: HYPOCRISY!

    19 For what can be known about God is plain to them, because God has shown it to them. 20 For his invisible attributes, namely, his eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly perceived, ever since the creation of the world, in the things that have been made.

    So they are without excuse. 21 For although they knew God, they did not honor him as God or give thanks to him, but they became futile in their thinking, and their foolish hearts were darkened.

    Do YOU honor God? and thank the Lord?

    OR is your worldly witness worthless to Christ?

    22 Claiming to be wise, they became fools, 23 and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images resembling mortal man and birds and animals and creeping things.

    24 Therefore God gave them up in the lusts of their hearts to impurity, to the dishonoring of their bodies among themselves, 25 because they exchanged the truth about God for a lie and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever! Amen.

    26 For this reason God gave them up to dishonorable passions.

    • For their women exchanged natural relations for those that are contrary to nature;
    • 27 and the men likewise gave up natural relations with women and were consumed with passion for one another,
    • men committing shameless acts with men and receiving in themselves the due penalty for their error.

    28 And since they did not see fit to acknowledge God, God gave them up to a debased mind to do what ought not to be done.

    29 They were filled with all manner of

    • unrighteousness,
    • evil,
    • covetousness,
    • malice.
    • They are full of envy,
    • murder,
    • strife,
    • deceit,
    • maliciousness.
    • They are gossips,
    • 30 slanderers,
    • haters of God,
    • insolent,
    • haughty,
    • boastful,
    • inventors of evil,
    • disobedient to parents,
    • 31 foolish,
    • faithless,
    • heartless,
    • ruthless.

    32 Though they know God’s righteous decree that those who practice such things deserve to die,

    they not only do them but give approval to those who practice them.

    Can you tell the truth (even to your self before God)?

    HOW MANY of these SINS invade the lives of your ‘christian’ household and ‘christian family’ EVERY DAY?

    None of these in any way describe Jesus Christ.

    None of these of our sins describe the fruit of our witness before the world that our returning Bridegroom expects of His spotless bride, His Holy Church.

    The earlier quotes from Romans 2 (a mirror on christians for us) are followed by more conviction:

    11 For God shows no partiality.

    22 You who say that one must not commit adultery, do you commit adultery?

    Romans 3:

    Let God be true though every one were a liar, as it is written,

    “That you may be justified in your words,
    and prevail when you are judged.”

    “None is righteous, no, not one;
    11     no one understands;
    no one seeks for God.
    12 All have turned aside; together they have become worthless;
    no one does good,
    not even one.”
    13 “Their throat is an open grave;
    they use their tongues to deceive.”

    18     “There is no fear of God before their eyes.”

    23 for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, 24 and are justified by his grace as a gift, through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus, 25 whom God put forward as a propitiation by his blood, to be received by faith.

    Romans 6

    English Standard Version (ESV)

    Dead to Sin, Alive to God

    6 What shall we say then? Are we to continue in sin that grace may abound? 2 By no means!

    How can we who died to sin still live in it?

    This is the QUESTION for the mirror of EVERY soul claiming Christ Jesus?

    3 Do you not know that all of us who have been baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death?

    4 We were buried therefore with him by baptism into death, in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father, we too might walk in newness of life.

    Let us confess our sin and bury it.

    Let us not confess a righteousness not yet worked out by the fruit of grace.

    Let us no more judge the sin we have not buried in Christ and cleansed for our returning Savior and Bridegroom of the Church.

     

  • The Mirror of Church Hypocrisy – 2

    The Mirror of Church Hypocrisy – 2

    Is Christ’s church not His betrothed, as Israel was chosen of the Lord?

    A word for the Church from Prophets of old:

    Israel Forsakes the Lord

    The word of the Lord came to me, saying, 2 “Go and proclaim in the hearing of Jerusalem, Thus says the Lord,

    “I remember the devotion of your youth,
    your love as a bride,
    how you followed me in the wilderness,
    in a land not sown.
    3 Israel was holy to the Lord,
    the first fruits of his harvest…

    “Dearly beloved,” begins our covenant witness for marriage.

    “Dear Lord Jesus,” we praise Christ when first we bow to Him.

    9 “Therefore I still contend with you,
    declares the Lord,
    and with your children’s children I will contend…

    19 Your evil will chastise you,
    and your apostasy will reprove you.

    Know and see that it is evil and bitter
    for you to forsake the Lord your God;
    the fear of me is not in you,
    declares the Lord God of hosts.

    20 “For long ago I broke your yoke
    and burst your bonds;
    but you said, ‘I will not serve.’

    Yes, on every high hill
    and under every green tree
    you bowed down like a whore…

    DIVORCE, by ‘christian’ husbands?

    DIVORCE, by ‘christian’ wives?

    You have long ago forsaken your love for the Lord your God. Your whoredom is against Christ Jesus, your returning Bridegroom!

    Our “Lord,” Christ Jesus warns: “Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce … but from the beginning it was not so. – Matthew 19:8

    Ephesians 5:22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord…

    25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church… that she might be holy and without blemish.

    31 “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” 

    32 This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church.

    How dare we (christians) even speak of the sexual sin of the world, when we have not returned to the purity Christ Jesus expects of His betrothed so soiled in sexual sin!

    Jeremiah 2:

    22 Though you wash yourself with lye
    and use much soap,
    the stain of your guilt is still before me,
    declares the Lord God…

    29 “Why do you contend with me?
    You have all transgressed against me,
    declares the Lord.
    30 In vain have I struck your children;
    they took no correction…

    Do our christian children witness the love and forgiveness of  Christ even less than their divorced christian parents?

    Do our christian children sell their flesh and souls to the same sexual desires we would hide from the world?

    To be continued…

     

  • Godly christian teens?

    Godly christian teens?

    (Almost) Everyone’s Doing It

    A SURPRISING NEW STUDY SHOWS CHRISTIANS ARE HAVING PREMARITAL SEX AND ABORTIONS
    AS MUCH (OR MORE) THAN NON-CHRISTIANS.
    Eighty percent of young, unmarried Christians have had sex.
    Two-thirds have been sexually active in the last year. Even though, according to a recent Gallup poll, 76 percent of evangelicals believe sex outside of marriage is morally wrong. source
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    “What used to be happening in high school is now happening in eighth grade,” DiMarco said.

    Even Christian teens are not immune to the rampant sexual temptations bombarding their generation.

    “I found no difference between Christian girls and non-Christian girls,” DiMarco said. “No difference, except that they talked a good show and acted really nice in front of me.”

    When she probed deeper she found that Christian teens were engaging in the same sexual behaviors as their non-Christian friends. source

    The problem that she has found with abstinence pledges is that teens have misconceptions about what it means to be a virgin. “Teen girls don’t understand what virginity is,” DiMarco says, “so everything except intercourse is considered okay even by Christian girls.”

    “…parents do not fully understand how commonplace these sexual behaviors have become in their children’s generation.

    The teens have been desensitized by the sexual messages on television, in movies, in magazines, and from their friends. But parents would never imagine that these things are taking place.

    Quick facts regarding STDs and adolescent pregnancy

    • Approximately 18.9 million new cases of STDs occur each year.
    • Forty-eight percent of new STD cases in 2000 were among 15- to 24-year-olds.
    • There are currently more than 25 types of STDs; some are curable, others are not.
    • In 2000, approximately 822,000 pregnancies occurred among 15- to 19-year-olds.
    • Seven out of ten adolescent mothers drop out of high school.

    Quick ideas about setting boundaries

    Children and teens need boundaries for their safety. Children should understand the consequences of breaking family rules and boundaries. Consequences should fit the severity of the rule. The following are a few boundaries to discuss with your teen:

    • Curfew
    • Transporting other teens: who or how many people ride in one car together
    • Drinking alcohol or using drugs
    • Drinking alcohol or using drugs and driving
    • Lying to parents or adults in authority
    • Allowing opposite-sex company in bedrooms
    • Having friends over while parents are absent
    • Age at which dating can begin
    • Dating vs. courting: discuss family values and guidelines

    source

    CHRISTIAN PARENTS:
    Do you need HELP!?
    Many fine organizations provide help, books, materials, counseling, prayer and the love of Christ in getting parents through TRYING to raise godly Christian children. It is NOT an easy job, but the Lord calls on Christian parents to take responsibility for the children we raise – that INCLUDES our teens.
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    Start early. As you can see by the startling statistics, you had better think about SEX in your children’s lives BEFORE they do.
    • IF you didn’t start early, it’s still NOT too late.
    Don’t give up.
    Your son (yes, don’t forget them, even though they don’t get pregnant) or your daughter will bless you for your Biblical guidance in later life when they discover how much damage the sex life of theirs or their friends has caused.
    One of the fine organizations I can recommend for marriage or various family challenges is Family Life Today.
    Here is just one article on this topic:

    Establishing Dating Guidelines for Your Teen

    Full Article

    In light of our reformatted definition of dating, we have the following very general age guidelines for spending time with a friend of the opposite sex (these are for our children still living at home).

    • Doing things together with an approved mixed group of teens away from our home: We have allowed this to begin sometime after age 15.
    • Double dates or group dates: Usually at age 17, maybe earlier.
    • Single dates: These are generally discouraged but allowed in certain circumstances.

    More Beautiful You – Jonny Diaz

    [Song with lyrics]

    What is YOUR witness for Jesus Christ, beloved Christian young woman?
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    What is YOUR witness for Jesus Christ, beloved young man of the Lord’s witness?
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    What is YOUR witness for Jesus Christ as a PARENT of a TEEN in your ‘christian’ household?
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    Proverbs 30

    English Standard Version (ESV)

    11 There are those [There is a generation] who curse their fathers
    and do not bless their mothers.
    12 There are those who are clean in their own eyes
    but are not washed of their filth.