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  • ANGRY Children of a Loving God – Part 3

    ANGRY Children of a Loving God – Part 3

    Christians can safely presume that anything wrong in our person-to-Person relationship with God is OUR problem, NOT HIS.

    ANGRY children of God who remain a prodigal son or daughter do NOT look to God for ANY solution for their anger.

    By contrast, Christians pray.

    ANGRY relationships between two ANGRY children of God are quite another matter.  In all likelihood, we are BOTH probably wrong in this person-to-person love-hate relationship.

    The unbeliever or disobedient believer hides in the darkness of their sin.

    Other hidden issues boil beneath the surface of their anger, fueled by a hardened heart against the love of Christ – HATRED for the celebrated Son of the Father.

    Consider your own SELF from Jesus’ Parable of the Angry Brother.

    Are YOU the brother who will NOT let go of grace for another?

    Christ’s caution to the heart of the faithful son, however, is that we must set aside our anger and rejoice in the love of the Father for all.  You know His example:

    FORGIVE US our trespasses, AS WE FORGIVE those who TRESPASS AGAINST US.

    “Do ANGRY children of a forgiving Father really have any right to NOT forgive ANY other?

    [To be continued…]

  • ANGRY Children of a Loving God – Part 2

    ANGRY Children of a Loving God – Part 2

    Here’s part of another story of Jesus  (familiar by a different heading).

    PARABLE OF THE ANGRY BROTHER

    Luke 15: Jesus told them this story: “A man had two sons…  So his father agreed to divide his wealth between his sons…

    … the older son was in the fields working. … he heard music and dancing in the house, 26 and he asked one of the servants what was going on. 27 ‘Your brother is back,’ he was told, ‘and your father has killed the fattened calf. We are celebrating because of his safe return.’

    28 “The older brother was angry and wouldn’t go in.

    His father came out and begged him, 29 but he replied, ‘All these years I’ve slaved for you and never once refused to do a single thing you told me to. And in all that time you never gave me even one young goat for a feast with my friends. 30 Yet when this son of yours comes back after squandering your money on prostitutes, you celebrate by killing the fattened calf!’

    31 “His father said to him, ‘Look, dear son, you have always stayed by me, and everything I have is yours. 32 We had to celebrate this happy day. For your brother was dead and has come back to life! He was lost, but now he is found!’”

    Have you ever considered, good brother (sister) in Christ, how we have no right to ever be ANGRY children of a loving Father?  We understand the love-hate relationships here.  Brothers, Samaritans, spouses, bosses, and friends –

    ”ANY relationship of nearness in love also risks the resentment of hate.

    We want justice to be weighed in our favor, yet mercy has already blessed us so abundantly.

    No Christian can begrudge our Heavenly Father for having more grace for another, when without His grace we would fall well short of the price of redemption paid for our own sins on the cross.

    The complexities of our love-hate relationships require communication between the persons of that relationship.

    So how do we apply the love of our Loving God to the love-hate relationships of our close-knit lives?  And what happens when we become ANGRY children who will not let go of our hatred?

    Once again, some answers are common to both believer and unbeliever; yet the real solutions are weighed on the sensitive scales of scripture, balanced by the Son of our grace.

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    • I once knew a man whose daughter died young.  He neglected his son and his wife and himself.  He was an ANGRY child of a merciful Father – a God who had other plans.
    • I once knew a man whose boss fired him. His wife wanted to take her anger and turn it on him.  The man would have not been welcomed back to his former career.  God had other plans.
    • I once knew a man who lost his house. His wife wanted to have a new house like the one he had lost.  God had other plans.
    • I once knew a woman who gave in to her sin.  She loved the darkness and hated the light.  She was an ANGRY child, disobedient to a loving God.  She had hated her life and loved only her SELF.

    WHAT does each of these love-hate relationships have in common?

    1. OUR relationship to a loving God, AND
    2. OUR relationships of other loved ones.

    Does any scripture come to mind here?

    Do we so soon forget the summary of the Law pointed out by Jesus?

    Love God. Love one another.

    – Pretty straight-forward, yet NOT so easy to do.

    Why?  Again an often overlooked obvious answer:

    ANY relationship involves another person.

    [To be continued…]

  • Christian Anger

    Christian Anger

    Ephesians 4:25-27

    Christian AngerEnglish Standard Version (ESV)

    25 Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbor, for we are members one of another.

    26 Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, 27 and give no opportunity to the devil.

    Do you ever get ANGRY? What do you do with your Christian Anger?  

    Do you let many moons set on your ANGER, even though the Bible tells us NOTto let even one day go by?

    I rarely get angry because I am quick to remember the hurtful consequences of past anger; but one day last week, I became angry.

    I hope that it was righteous anger.  I was lashing out against a sense of frustration in trying to defend my wife against an immovable bureaucracy causing high cost of injustice.  (I wanted it taken care of RIGHT AWAY!) Have you ever been there?

    Of course in time our Lord will right all injustice and reward all PATIENCE for suffering injustice.  It may have been “righteous anger.”

    After the situation was partially resolved, I made a phone call to the person who patiently endured my tirade of something out of her control and I apologized (before the sun set on her tough day).

    Here is what helped me to PAUSE before I let out anger

    Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.

    Stimulus____Response - Frankl

      Even when Jesus showed righteous anger, his anger was witness to God! 

    Careful… Our ANGER usually is not witness for God and makes others think that Jesus makes NO difference in us, IF HE is NOT Lord over our ANGER.

    Between the STIMULUS ……..and……response…. Pause for Jesus’ sake.

    We PAUSE here for you to Worship our Lord over the weekend…

    …to be continued with a series beginning Monday, 16 September 2013:

    ANGRY Children of a Loving God