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  • In case you missed it, friend..

    In case you missed it, friend..

    “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another, even as I have loved you, that you also love one another.

    John 13:34 NASB

    35 By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.”

    In case you missed it

    Christ Jesus, the Messiah of Israel who has said, I AND THE FATHER ARE ONE, commanded HIS FOLLOWERS to LOVE ONE ANOTHER as the JESUS has loved them.

    In While we wait… DEATH and Resurrection we examined this love of Jesus from the Good News of John at length. However, friend, our 21st century ‘christian’ attention span seems to stretch only about 30 seconds.

    I ask (not command) you, friend, to love me enough to follow me, because I love you as our Lord Jesus has loved us. (You can do it now before my 30 seconds is up or whenever you finish reading my talk of Jesus, even without your much desired comment.)

    What’s the point?

    The Gospel of Jesus Christ may have more to say to you than just a few seconds of scrolling will allow if your heart has not become like that of Judas. For the Lord gave us a new command to “love one another, just as I have loved you.”

    Roger Harned – talkofJesus.com

    And before you hastily dismiss the Lord’s command, who does Jesus command here?

    Is He talking to the CHURCH?

    Now you may not be a Judas in the room where the Lord gave this new command, but we are at least like Peter, Thomas and other Disciples with frequent failures to pay attention to the Word.

    So one of us is bound to ask a “Who is my neighbor” question of the Lord’s new command:

    Who does Jesus command?

    And thinking that it may be just the Eleven faithful Apostles in the room you dismiss this NEW COMMANDMENT in one of two ways:

    1. Since the Lord was speaking to those who had followed already for three years, ‘love one another as I have loved you,’ applied ONLY to the Disciples. OR
    2. Jesus new command, “that you also love one another,” is no different than His general command to “love your neighbor” or “love your enemy.”

    Whether Jesus new command was just to the Apostles or a broad example I’m not going to be the one to ask, ‘And who should I love like You, Jesus?’ I’m really not up to that.

    AND besides, who is the church? Who are ‘christians‘ that we should somehow be in the middle of this ‘new commandment?’

    Whether for first century followers or a 21st century world of neighbors and enemies, Jesus command just applies to YOU and ME generally… RIGHT?

    Ah, dear friend and saint, WHAT IF JESUS IS COMMANDING you and also commanding ME directly?

    You are My friends if you do what I command you. 

    John 15:14

    What must we do, my fellow CHRISTIAN?

    To be continued, God-willing...
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  • My love – 2 – Friendship

    My love – 2 – Friendship

    A friend loves at all times,
    and a brother is born for adversity. – Proverbs 17:17

    [Eleanor Rigby] All the lonely people… where do they all come from?

    Are you one of them (at least sometimes in your chaotic busyness)? I think we all are at times; yet not for a lifetime, I pray.

    Can you think of any love more important and personal in those times when you need compassion, empathy and perhaps even an embrace of love? Is any relationship on the planet more necessary to you at that moment than the support of a friend?

    facebook unfriendedHistory and the Bible retell many stories of the great love of friendship. Like the word ‘love,’ we have also cheapened the very love of friendship, philia, or brotherly love. Wisdom and the pens of poets caution us against ignoring, confusing or devaluing the true love of friendships God would put in our lives.

    Faithful are the wounds of a friend;
    profuse are the kisses of an enemy. Proverbs 27:6

    Has there been a Judas in your life? Yet the love of a friend loves you when you are wronged, embraces you with kindness and defends you in the battle of righteousness. A loyal friend holds near the double-edged sword of truth.

    Ralph Waldo Emerson “The glory of friendship is not the outstretched hand, not the kindly smile, nor the joy of companionship; it is the spiritual inspiration that comes to one when you discover that someone else believes in you and is willing to trust you with a friendship.” ― Ralph Waldo Emerson

    The incalculable value of your friend is the faithful love of trusted relationship.

    A man of many companions may come to ruin,
    but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother. – Proverbs 18:14

    Jonathan was such a friend to David, who would not have become King of Israel without him. Jonathan was a hero to Israel even before David slayed Goliath (many of us will not recall).

    1 Samuel 13:3 Jonathan defeated the garrison of the Philistines that was at Geba, and the Philistines heard of it. And Saul blew the trumpet throughout all the land, saying, “Let the Hebrews hear.”

    Jonathan, son of Saul, was in line to be King.

    1 Samuel 17:

    cima-da-conegliano-david-jonathan-NG2505-fm57 And as soon as David returned from the striking down of the Philistine, Abner took him, and brought him before Saul with the head of the Philistine in his hand. 58 And Saul said to him, “Whose son are you, young man?” And David answered, “I am the son of your servant Jesse the Bethlehemite.”

    18:1 As soon as he had finished speaking to Saul, the soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul. 2 And Saul took him that day and would not let him return to his father’s house. 3 Then Jonathan made a covenant with David, because he loved him as his own soul. 4 And Jonathan stripped himself of the robe that was on him and gave it to David, and his armor, and even his sword and his bow and his belt.

    The high value of David’s love for Jonathan and the love of Jonathan for David is well-documented in the many encounters between Saul and David prior to Saul’s death and David’s God-anointed ascent to the throne.

     Are you a friend like Jonathan to someone you love?

    Jesus was a friend to His Apostles.

    John 15

     12 “This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you. 13 Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends. 14 You are my friends if you do what I command you. 15 No longer do I call you servants, for the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you.

    Imagine, a friend and equal to Jesus! This is the great humility of God. This is the greatest love of all, that He makes us once more His friends and commands us to love each other.

    17 These things I command you, so that you will love one another.

    Friendship!

    This love is the relationship of the church, modeled many times in the Acts of the Apostles and the letters. Perhaps a favorite early unlikely friendship is the one which brought Saul of Tarsus and Barnabas together as friends in the Lord. Here is the beginning of Saul’s story after seeing the risen Christ (you may remember):

    Acts 9

    Saul in Jerusalem
    26 And when he had come to Jerusalem, he attempted to join the disciples. And they were all afraid of him, for they did not believe that he was a disciple. 27 But Barnabas took him and brought him to the apostles and declared to them how on the road he had seen the Lord, who spoke to him, and how at Damascus he had preached boldly in the name of Jesus. 28 So he went in and out among them at Jerusalem, preaching boldly in the name of the Lord.

    Barnabas took Paul to Cypress to his home for their first missionary journey. When Peter heard of the gentiles receiving the Holy Spirit, the church sought out Paul, who would become known as the Apostle to the gentiles.

    Acts 11

    21 And the hand of the Lord was with them, and a great number [of gentiles or Hellenist Greeks] who believed turned to the Lord. 22 The report of this came to the ears of the church in Jerusalem, and they sent Barnabas to Antioch. 23 When he came and saw the grace of God, he was glad, and he exhorted them all to remain faithful to the Lord with steadfast purpose, 24 for he was a good man, full of the Holy Spirit and of faith. And a great many people were added to the Lord.

    25 So Barnabas went to Tarsus to look for Saul, 26 and when he had found him, he brought him to Antioch. For a whole year they met with the church and taught a great many people. And in Antioch the disciples were first called Christians.

    Acts 14: Barnabas & Paul refuse to be worshiped as gods in Lystra after God performs a miracle through them.
    Acts 14: Barnabas & Paul refuse to be worshiped as gods in Lystra after God performs a miracle through them.

    And later, in Jerusalem:

    Acts 15:12 And all the assembly fell silent, and they listened to Barnabas and Paul as they related what signs and wonders God had done through them among the Gentiles.

    It is a lasting friendship, a faithful love, that blesses the life of a Christian (even that of an unbeliever, who my be won by your faithfulness to God).

    The Letter of Paul to the Galatians:

    2:1 Then after fourteen years I went up again to Jerusalem with Barnabas, taking Titus along with me.

    My love, my friend: my dear brother, my dear sister in our Lord and savior Jesus Christ,

    Do you have a friend you love in the Lord?

    We should, in fact, have more than one love, a fellow like-minded believer.

    Do you LOVE your church friend? Do you hear in your heart and soul the command of our Lord and friend, Christ Jesus?

    To be continued

  • A Temporary Throne – 25

    A Temporary Throne – 25

    CHAPTER 25

    The LORD had given me great latitude from the THRONE of Heaven to make a choice other than HIS ALL-KNOWING blessings (and HIS ALL-KNOWING curses).

    But how was I to understand HIS UNDERSTANDING of marriage, for which THE LORD had brought me to the very THRONE of Heaven? … (I thought, before proceeding in thought or word…)

    Genesis 2: 18 And the Lord God said, “It is not good that man should be alone…

    My other thoughts, fully revealed to THE LIVING GOD; but freely shared and received, as in conversation of two friends…

    “This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh…”
    … and they shall become one flesh.

     

    I KNOW, ROGER, THIS IS YOUR HEART,

    comforted my FRIEND.

    I HAVE SHOWN YOU THE FATHER OF ALL FLESH AND THE MOTHER OF ALL DESIRE.

    I HAVE SHOWN YOU THE EXAMPLE OF NOAH AND THE SINS OF ALL KINDS AND THE NAKEDNESS OF MAN BEFORE ME, EVIL FROM THEIR HEARTS FROM THEIR VERY YOUTH.

    YOU HAVE SEEN THE SIN OF CANAAN UPON MY SERVANT NOAH.

    SHALL I REVEAL ALL THE SIN OF SODOM TO YOU?

    “LORD, no, Lord, if YOU please.

    I know that YOU hate and punish the sin, while you would call the sinner, if they would hear, to repentance rather than destruction.

    Lord I know that these who I love as well, choose love of their flesh over YOU.”

    Malachi 3: 6 “For I am the Lord, I do not change; therefore you are not consumed, O sons of Jacob.
    7 Yet from the days of your fathers you have gone away from My ordinances and have not kept them.

    Return to Me, and I will return to you,” Says the Lord of hosts.

     

    To be continued …

    Personal note: Today is the Seventh wedding anniversary of the marriage vows of my Blessing and me, our covenant made in the Name of God taken on 7/7/2007.
    Please pray for us and for all marriages between a Christian man and a Christian woman, blessed in our vows and love for each other and for our Lord, Christ Jesus.

    A Temporary Throne is an original work of Roger Harned,

    © Copyright 2013, All Rights Reserved by the author.