Tag: loneliness

  • Loneliness in the Solitary Confinement || Distanced from Friends

    Loneliness in the Solitary Confinement || Distanced from Friends

    Security

    Story of a man awakened

    I’d like to continue from what I told you last time. You need to know what happened after a rude awakening from my dream of when my wife and I were in Eden walking with God as if HE Who Created All was my friend!

    You know of course that I awoke to this day and not a time before Abraham and you may have heard or read my story, but I wanted to tell you how I felt at the time.

    A Knock at the Door

    We lay intertwined embraced in warmth flowing from fingertips to toe. Our paradise shattered as I awoke to a loud knock on the door…

    “David! . . . Lend me three loaves!”

    Who is this at this late hour, I thought? Then as I recognized my neighbor’s outcry at our door,

    “Shaul, is that you?” I inquired.

    “Of course it’s me. Who else would it be at this hour?” my neighbor responded as he continued,

    “A friend of mine has come to me from a journey, and I have nothing to set before him.”

    We had just fallen asleep and I retorted,

    “Do not bother me. As you can plainly see the door has already been shut and we are all in bed.”

    “Come on, David, I have nothing to eat for my friends who have just arrived,” he replied.

    “I cannot get up and give you anything,” I again said even though my wife and I were awake by now.

    Shaul again began shamelessly knocking at our door as my wife looked toward me with that look.

    Alright, my friend,” I shouted over his knocks as I headed to the door.

    “I will give you your bread.”

    A Parable of Separation

    You know this story.

    Perhaps the characters are purely fictional as in most parables; but like many of Jesus’ parables, He probably retold it in many places to different crowds in various ways.

    • Can you identify with the family behind locked doors in the darkness, separated from friends and seeking peace?
    • Or perhaps you can imagine that you are the friend of Shaul, who has traveled a day’s journey and arrived unexpectedly late.

    Your good friend didn’t even know that you were coming to him in person. And all of you were overjoyed for this personal reunion!

    Friends — no longer separated by distance.

    AND your friend is even willing to go to his friend and neighbor for something to eat while rejoined in communion with each other.

    Picture Paradise when Heaven’s Door | of Separation | is Opened

    I have just illustrated Jesus’ parable with names of appropriate symbolism as the Lord occasionally does. [i.e. Lazarus in the bosom of Abraham]

    שאול
    Shaul

    Shaul means, “borrowed.” http://blb.sc/000vVY

    “Lend me three loaves,” he begs his beloved friend.

    stone wall "city of David" in Hebrew and English

    דָּוִד

    David

    David means, “friend” or “beloved.” http://blb.sc/001ccS

    “This is my beloved and this is my friend,
    O daughters of Jerusalem.” – Song 5:26b NASB

    and behold, a voice out of the heavens said,

    “This is My beloved Son, in whom I am well-pleased.”

    says the LORD, the God of IsraelGospel of Matthew 3:17

    The Gospel of Luke 11:

    It happened that while Jesus was praying in a certain place, when He had finished, one of His disciples said to Him, “Lord, teach us to pray…

    We know it as:

    The Lord’s Prayer

    Jesus’ Disciples were already isolated ‘in a certain place.’

    No show here for church friends

    or ritualized rote of memorized obligation.

    Father, hallowed be Your name.

    Your kingdom come.

    Give us each day our daily bread.

    And forgive us our sins…

    Gospel of Luke 11:2b-4a NASB

    Christ’s application in an isolated place

    Jesus, of course, is talking about prayer – petitions of a sinful man to a Father God | separated from man | by holiness.

    Here is a man alone secure in his home praying – spirit to Spirit.

    Perhaps he does dream of Paradise | personal relationship with the Lord God | as it was in the beginning.

    Jesus invites His followers to a place | separated and distanced from others in this world.

    The call to prayer is to the Father of His beloved children.

    a friend at the door | to a Friend inside

    I’ve told you this parable from a perspective of the FRIEND INSIDE.

    The Lord Jesus speaks to each SINNER as a friend knocking | adam knocking repeatedly on the DOOR | of Heaven through prayer.

    Jesus says of the FRIEND inside who I have just described in this parable:

    8 I tell you, even if he will not get up and give him anything just because he is his friend, yet because of his shamelessness he will get up and give him as much as he needs.

    • You and I are Shaul, the borrower of bread.
    • Our Heavenly Father is David | our beloved friend with the bread of Heaven, which He now has given to us after having answered a knock at His door.

    It is His story I have just told!

    Our beloved Heavenly Father and Friend invites you to share the Bread that came down from Heaven – the Bread of Life, Christ Jesus Who IS the Son and | Door to eternal life.

    Jesus answers disciples asking about prayer with a parable of the Father | who once again desires the Personal Face-to-face fellowship of Eden.

    “So I say to you, ask, and it will be given to you;

    seek, and you will find;

    knock, and it will be opened to you.

    For everyone who asks receives,

    and the one who seeks finds,

    and to the one who knocks, it will be opened.

    The Good News of Luke 11:9-10 NASB | Jesus on prayer to the Father

    NEXT: A look at Social Distancing of the Church in a 1st century world of violent upheaval.

    To be continued...
  • Loneliness in the Solitary Confinement of Social Distancing

    Loneliness in the Solitary Confinement of Social Distancing

    Security

    We lay intertwined embraced in warmth flowing from fingertips to toe. Our paradise shattered as I awoke to a loud knock on the door…

    We will return to my reaction to this awakening later, but for now we must leave the security of our dreams to a new reality of this prison of our solitary confinement.

    Separation

    COVID19 – – & other causes

    What happened to the security of our past?

    WHY a ‘new normal?’

    (It’s not really normal, is it?)

    We often feel like the man in prison wondering how he got there and missing his freedom of being with others.

    Look into the soul of the one locked up – – – in a prison away from everyone — even in solitary confinement — to keep him safe — from other prisoners – – – to keep others – – safe from his own threatening condition.

    This new reality is not like when we were back home in paradise – – home – – – with those who loved us – – – not like when our security became LIFE – – | | | – behind these confining bars – – | | | with a window looking out – – to a world virtually separated | | | from my lone soul…

    We MUST get back HOME – – – – – – – for this is not our home.

    Then the LORD God said,

    “It is not good for adam to be alone..

    Bereishit (Genesis) 2:18 וַיֹּאמֶר יְהוָה אֱלֹהִים לֹא־טוֹב הֱיוֹת הָֽאָדָם לְבַדּוֹ אֶֽעֱשֶׂהּ־לּוֹ עֵזֶר כְּנֶגְדּֽוֹ׃

    Sin & Trespass

    We all know what happened – – – – – –

    “Has God really said...? – – –

    ..you will become like God, knowing good and evil.” – – –

    The TREE was desirable to the eyes, | | | but it was the one place the LORD GOD commanded adam not to go.

    Cursed is the ground because of you;
    With hard labor you shall eat from it
    All the days of your life.
    – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – –

    By the sweat of your face
    You shall eat bread,
    Until you return to the ground,

    Because from it you were taken;

    – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – – –

    For you are dust – – – – – -,

    And to dust you shall return.”

    Bereishit (Genesis) 3:19

    So He drove out the man; and He placed cherubim at the east of the garden of Eden,

    and a flaming sword which turned every way, to guard the way to the tree of life.

    Genesis 3:24 NASB

    “I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through Me.

    Jesus, Son of the Father, the Son of adam – The Good News of John 14:

    SOLITARY CONFINEMENT in the world outside the Good Garden – – – an eternal place to which the Son of adam invites those banished and condemned to DEATH . . . to return to the Lord our God and Savior.

    Separated from walking in Personal relationship with THE LORD GOD . . .

    Therefore we pray:

    .. and forgive us our sins,

    as we have forgiven those who sin against us…

    And don’t let us yield to temptation,
    but rescue us from the evil one.

    Matthew 6:12-13 NLT

    Our paradise shattered!

    Turn to me and be gracious to me,
    For I am lonely and afflicted.

    Psalm 25:16

    We will return to my dream shattered by awakening from sleep when we continue Loneliness in the Solitary Confinement..

    To be continued...