Tag: marriage

  • Interrupting Jesus 2 – gift for a bride & groom

    Interrupting Jesus 2 – gift for a bride & groom

    “Woman, what does this have to do with me? My hour has not yet come.” John 2:4

    A young Jewish man from an insignificant town of Nazareth in Roman occupied Galilee, though only thirty years old, begins to gain a following. He is unmarried and head of his family, consisting of a widowed mother and younger brothers. Disciples of this young likable rabbi, who had worked as a carpenter in his deceased father’s shop, joined Jesus at a nearby wedding in Cana.

    Jesus had just begun to call disciples (or followers of a Rabbi/teacher) for His three-year earthly and eternal mission. A righteous man in everyone’s eyes, young Jesus is now called to a mission worthy of His Name.

    John 1:

    49 Nathanael answered him,“Rabbi, you are the Son of God! You are the King of Israel!”

    Of course, Jesus’ mother knew well the divinity of Jesus. Mary knew from before conception that God alone was His Father!

    In the great traditions of Jewish hospitality and celebration of the occasions and milestones of this earthly life, Jesus and His family (mother and brothers) accept the invitation to the wedding of a friend. Jesus and his family are guests just having a good time at this celebration. In addition to His family, Jesus had invited His new followers as well. Cana is a nearby small town. It was just a joyous, typical wedding celebration.

    When the wine ran out, the mother of Jesus said to him, “They have no wine.”And Jesus said to her, “Woman, what does this have to do with me? My hour has not yet come.” His mother said to the servants, “Do whatever he tells you.”

    The wedding, of course, is all about celebration. It is all about the joining of the bride and the groom in holy matrimony, a man and a woman pledged to each other for life. A father of the bride gives his beloved daughter to a man to have as his wife for the rest of their lives together. The father of the bride, the groomsmen, the hosts of the celebration are honored for their hosting of this grande wedding feast.

    BUT, the wine ran out early. (Too many people.) What now? Dishonor? The widow Mary suggests to her friends that her son could help?

    Jesus, his family and disciples are just invited guests. The celebration is not about them. In fact, it seems like just an interruption (a previous commitment, perhaps) to the beginning of our Lord’s mission. What to do?

    Now there were six stone water jars there for the Jewish rites of purification, each holding twenty or thirty gallons. Jesus said to the servants, “Fill the jars with water.” And they filled them up to the brim. And he said to them,“Now draw some out and take it to the master of the feast.” So they took it.When the master of the feast tasted the water now become wine, and did not know where it came from (though the servants who had drawn the water knew), the master of the feast called the bridegroom 10 and said to him, “Everyone serves the good wine first, and when people have drunk freely, then the poor wine. But you have kept the good wine until now.”

    11 This, the first of his signs, Jesus did at Cana in Galilee, and manifested his glory. And his disciples believed in him.

    He seemed liked just a popular guest at the local wedding. He seemed to be a teacher gaining followers (like John the Baptizer). He seems like just the kindest friend or son or brother you could ever meet. Yet by this interruption to Jesus’ work and daily life and travels, our Lord began ministering to the needs of those He loved in a most perfect way.

    To be continued… 

  • My Love – 6 – If I have not love

    My Love – 6 – If I have not love

    ‘I’m not happy.’

    ‘I met someone’

    IF you claim to be a follower of the Bridegroom of the church, Jesus Christ and things don’t go quite your way, would you tell Jesus to ‘get out’?

    Would you look for someone better, who might make you happy in this world?

    (Did God really say, “Don’t eat of the fruit of that tree?”)

    IF you are unfaithful to Christ’s love, would it not be adultery?

    christian whoreThough you claim to be a follower of Jesus, so had Judas!

    This is the unfortunate false witness of some with a cross in front of their home, ‘christianity’ claimed before ‘friends’ as religion, their stamp of approval before the world. These claim many things by the ‘Blood of Jesus,’ yet their more bold witness of worldly sins again crucifies hope in His body and true Bride, the church.

    Some have heard the following, even at weddings, known as the ‘love chapter.’

    IF Jesus Christ is your love, listen then to true love, you adulterers of Christ!

    1 Corinthians 13

    The Way of Love

     If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.

    I have heard in churches the noisy gongs of ‘single moms,’ divorced grandmas and others clanging the noise of their own ‘higher’ worship, ‘tongues of angels,’ God’s messengers; as if we should follow these women, rather than Christ Jesus as Lord. Will they who are not bowed down to their husband or any man in Christ not lead the faith astray with their babel?

    And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.

    I have heard prophesy given in the church. Is it from God? Why then did the church not record the very prediction of God given? Is the prophesy confirmed and witnessed to the glory of our Lord, Christ Jesus? Yes, sometimes; but believer beware of the wolves in our midst.

    Have you not endured some claiming such superior knowledge and understanding of mysteries who would teach us of their ‘faith to remove mountains’ in their Sunday school class or church small group?

    Did you experience the embrace of Christ’s love in their Pharisaical instruction? Did you hear love for you in their teaching or prophesy?

    I, too, have received prophesy and spoken it. The revelation of the Lord is a terrible and awesome thing!

    Some prophesy has not yet come to pass. For all I know, I may have been given some spirit of deception to accomplish the Lord’s overpowering purpose. Yet in these last days we must fear the Lord, always listening for the approaching trumpet of truth over the blaring cries of some claiming ‘understanding.’

    Read your Bible and pray for revelation by the Spirit of Truth in scripture.

    If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing.

    And though I bestow,‘ states the King James; bestow, an interesting word more related to charity as we understand it – charity, agape love of God, used in application throughout these verses of the love chapter.

    Bestow: to feed by putting a bit or crumb (of food) into the mouth; of infants, young animals etc.; to feed, nourish to give a thing; to feed someone, feed out to

    Feed on God’s word in scripture. Nourish your spirit in prayer.

    Does this not also bring to mind the love a father and a mother, given to their child, their teen, their grown adult children, even their spouse given in marriage into your own family? Is this not also the gift of adoption given by our Heavenly Father through Christ to gentile believers (like most of us)?

    Are we not all poor and needy, dependent on our Father’s forgiving gracious love?

    Though I give to the poor, but have not love…

    Is that our charity of witness?

    Now that I have shared the seriousness of God’s love for us, allow me to share the more familiar actions of love often and appropriately shared at weddings:

    Love is patient and kind;

    love does not envy or boast;

    it is not arrogant 5

     or rude.

    Are you patient to your spouse, to whom you are joined to each other and God by your vows?

    Is your husband (or wife) patient with you – patient for you?

    Is your love for your beloved partner until death – kind?

    Are you, dear father, and you, dear mother, kind to your son – kind to your daughter – kind to each and all of your children (obedient and faithful, or rebellious and hateful)? Are you kind to your adopted child, your step-child, your child (even an adult child) given into your nurture by God to raise and guide in the Lord, Christ Jesus?

    Is your love patient and kind even to your prodigal teen?

    Is your love for your spouse, your children, your brothers and sisters in Christ ALWAYS patient and kind? Lord help us, impatient and unkind sinners!

    It does not insist on its own way;

    it is not irritable or resentful;

    it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth.

    Are you just another ‘spoiled child’ of God in your relationships with others in your daily life?

    Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

    Lord: Convict us and forgive us, for the sake of your Son, our loving Savior, Jesus Christ. Help me – help us to love you more and more; help us, miserable saved sinners, to love those you love with your overflowing agape love.

    Love never ends.

    To be continued…

  • Hope deferred, Desire fulfilled

    Hope deferred, Desire fulfilled

    Hope deferred makes the heart sick,
    but a desire fulfilled is a tree of life. Proverbs 13:12

    And so it has been, since twice rejected by the wife of my vows. It is not right in the LORD.

    Proverbs 30:

    The man declares, I am weary, O God;
    I am weary, O God, and worn out.
    2 Surely I am too stupid to be a man.
    I have not the understanding of a man.
    3 I have not learned wisdom,
    nor have I knowledge of the Holy One.

    ‘God is with me. God is with me; yet the son is devoured’

    Do these weary, worn words of Proverbs 30 not point to Christ? Yet even I am devoured by my sin on His Cross, God’s own compassion for me.

    Who will have such compassion on the weary and worn? Surly the church is too busy to comfort a man of no understanding. Surly the compassion and mercy of Christ hide behind proud deeds of service in His Name, worship to fill one’s own heart.

    7 Two things I ask of you;
    deny them not to me before I die:
    8 Remove far from me falsehood and lying;
    give me neither poverty nor riches;
    feed me with the food that is needful for me,
    9 lest I be full and deny you
    and say, “Who is the Lord?”
    or lest I be poor and steal
    and profane the name of my God.

    traditional marriage vows It is the lie of the beloved,

    which makes the heart of the lover sick

    with hopelessness and mistrust

    of hidden unfaithfulness.

    1 John 1:5-6 This is the message we have heard from him and proclaim to you, that God is light, and in him is no darkness at all. If we say we have fellowship with him while we walk in darkness, we lie and do not practice the truth.

    Colossians 3:9 Do not lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old self with its practices.

    Is the husband not head of the wife? Is it right in the Lord that she should lie to him, who is lord over her body and one with her in spirit? Marriage, the joining of two souls alone, is a great mystery! In the unfathomable mystery of this same deep intimacy of relationship, we in Christ are also joined with Him.

    The Bridegroom will return for His Bride, His Church;

    Desire fulfilled by the Bridegroom of eternal life.

     Proverbs 30: 

    32 If you have been foolish, exalting yourself,
    or if you have been devising evil,
    put your hand on your mouth.
    33 For pressing milk produces curds,
    pressing the nose produces blood,
    and pressing anger produces strife.

    Would you be a wise woman, a bride worthy of the love of your beloved?

    The Woman Who Fears the Lord

    Proverbs 31

    10 An excellent wife who can find?
        She is far more precious than jewels.
    11 The heart of her husband trusts in her,
        and he will have no lack of gain.
    12 She does him good, and not harm,
        all the days of her life.