Tag: reconciliation

  • Christian Anger

    Christian Anger

    Ephesians 4:25-27

    Christian AngerEnglish Standard Version (ESV)

    25 Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbor, for we are members one of another.

    26 Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, 27 and give no opportunity to the devil.

    Do you ever get ANGRY? What do you do with your Christian Anger?  

    Do you let many moons set on your ANGER, even though the Bible tells us NOTto let even one day go by?

    I rarely get angry because I am quick to remember the hurtful consequences of past anger; but one day last week, I became angry.

    I hope that it was righteous anger.  I was lashing out against a sense of frustration in trying to defend my wife against an immovable bureaucracy causing high cost of injustice.  (I wanted it taken care of RIGHT AWAY!) Have you ever been there?

    Of course in time our Lord will right all injustice and reward all PATIENCE for suffering injustice.  It may have been “righteous anger.”

    After the situation was partially resolved, I made a phone call to the person who patiently endured my tirade of something out of her control and I apologized (before the sun set on her tough day).

    Here is what helped me to PAUSE before I let out anger

    Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.

    Stimulus____Response - Frankl

      Even when Jesus showed righteous anger, his anger was witness to God! 

    Careful… Our ANGER usually is not witness for God and makes others think that Jesus makes NO difference in us, IF HE is NOT Lord over our ANGER.

    Between the STIMULUS ……..and……response…. Pause for Jesus’ sake.

    We PAUSE here for you to Worship our Lord over the weekend…

    …to be continued with a series beginning Monday, 16 September 2013:

    ANGRY Children of a Loving God

  • Take a look in the mirror

    Take a look in the mirror

    TEXT: Do you love Jesus Christ?

    • No answer
    • Another text (later)
    • No answer

    So what is a brother or sister in Christ to think?  Are you too busy for just a simple answer to a genuine communication in love?

    Maybe you think: I have other things to do… or when that number comes up on your cell: “I won’t answer that.  I don’t want to talk to him (or her).”

    Is that your idea of what you look like when you say that you are a Christian?

    Do you really think that is what Jesus Christ expects from those who ‘claim’ His Name by calling ourselves: christians?

    Perhaps it’s time to take an honest look in the mirror of your Christianity?

    John 13:34 A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another.

    The word used three times in just one verse – a commandment of our Lord Christ Jesus – agapaō

    of persons: to welcome, to entertain, to be fond of, to love dearly

    I don’t know about you, but I see no choice here.

    IF a Christian brother or sister is trying to communicate with you: Jesus commands us to welcome them, to entertain them and to be fond of our brother or sister in the Lord — even love them dearly.

    IF we have a relationship with Jesus Christ, then by His command (IF in fact and in deed He IS our Lord) Jesus commands us to love each other dearly.

    Take a look in the mirror. After all, you should see a forgiven sinner staring back at you AND Jesus forgave you.

    In case you were wondering about the word for “love” in 1 Corinthians 13, often quoted as ‘the love chapter,’ it is a form of the same word:

    agapē – affection, good will, love, benevolence, brotherly love

    You can be convicted by the entire list by reading the thirteen verses of 1 Corinthians 13; but to point out just a few for the mirror in front of you now:

    • Love is not arrogant.
    • Love is not rude.
    • Love is not irritable.
    • Love is not resentful.

    Yes, there are more.

    And don’t forget, dear brother or sister in the Lord:

    Love never ends.

    And one final look in the mirror:

    12  For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I have been fully known.

    Let’s talk of Jesus. Please SHARE your Christian Social Witness.

    & comment:

    Do you love Jesus Christ?

  • The Family that Prays together Stays together

    The Family that Prays together Stays together

    Is your family too busy to pray?

    I am praying for my family today.

    Romans 1: 

    God knows how often I pray for you.

    Day and night I bring you and your needs in prayer to God, whom I serve with all my heart by spreading the Good News about his Son.

    10 One of the things I always pray for is the opportunity, God willing, to come at last to see you.