Tag: witness

  • The Mirror of Church Hypocrisy

    The Mirror of Church Hypocrisy

    The hypocrisy of Christians becomes most evident in the issues we pursue and the righteousness we do NOT pursue.

    I would like to help the unbeliever understand the motives of christians of the church and the issues we most frequently address in the public arena, while ignoring the log in the eyes of our christian private lives.
    • Look at a mirror;
    • look into a mirror;
    • look through a mirror…

    what do you see? 

    A different image from every perspective.

    1. FALSE IMAGE #1:
      • The Church is NOT the building, whether grand cathedral or quint country landmark with a cross on top.
    2. FALSE IMAGE #2
      • Christians are the ONLY hypocrites. NO, far from it. ALL of us frequently try to put on our best face for others.

    The Church is the people, that is: each witness of a particular church and all Christians.

    Therefore, wherever people gather (in a church building or anywhere) and what ever we call ourselves (catholic, Baptist, orthodox, born again, etc.); sin remains and hypocrisy dwells nearby.

    IF a Christian will admit to you that THEY are the sinner (saved by Christ) who is pleading to you (another sinner), they speak nearer the truth than those who set a standard for unbelievers and will not talk about the fruit of their own lives and family members.

    The two issues most frequently associated with the agendas of Christians may be:

    HOMOSEXUALITY & ABORTION .

    The two SINS most evident in the church are:

    SEX outside of marriage & DIVORCE.

    As brief review of the facts, there is virtually NO DIFFERENCE in the divorce rate of Christians and non-Christians, even though we call our vows “holy” and confirm them as “covenants” with God “… until death do us part.”

    And Christian teens (like their christian parents) seem to act just like the world once they hit puberty. Christian families OFTEN have children who are having SEX with others.

    HYPOCRISY, as I have confessed throughout the previous calls to christians for REPENTANCE and a return to the Christianity of our proclaimed faith.

    HYPOCRISY, THAT A WIFE MAY DIVORCE HER HUSBAND (and call herself a ‘single mom’) and at the same time call herself a ‘christian.’

    HYPOCRISY, divorce by christians AND witness against Christ Jesus.

    HYPOCRISY that two teens, regular members of the youth group ‘at church,’ are known to be “IN A RELATIONSHIP.”

    Where do we think that babies come from? INTERCOURSE; and our TEENS are doing it.

    Where do we think abortions come from?

    The HYPOCRISY of christians (and other parents) trying to HIDE the evidence of their child’s child!

    (OR perhaps they will send the baby quietly away to be adopted by some loving homosexual or other couple.)

    Was this God’s plan for families? Was this God’s intention for the generations? Certainly not!

    Let me be perfectly clear on my position: ABORTION is a sin. Abortion is the murder of a baby created by God in the womb of the mother from the seed of its father.

    A baby is a miracle of life; an abortion is a sentence of death.

    As to SEX outside of marriage, it is sin.

    DIVORCE is sin, just as intercourse before marriage is sin, just as adultery is sin.  (I have confessed my former sin; never-the-less it remains sin, as it is sin by our children IF we, as parents and the church condone it.)

    CHRISTIANS may NOT divorce (but FREQUENTLY do); therefore (as a church), we take on other sexual sin, like homosexuality.

    The sins of homosexuality often include many of the same sins of adultery. Never-the-less, these are sins for either the married or the unmarried.

     To be continued…

  • Hypocrite ‘christian’ & Hypocrite Unbeliever

    Hypocrite ‘christian’ & Hypocrite Unbeliever

    You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take out the speck that is in your brother’s eye. – Luke 6:42b

    HARSH words from Jesus!

    Would you of the church (who call yourself “christian”) deserve the rebuke of the One we call Lord?

    It so happens that the same thing that unbelievers do not like in ‘christians’ is the same thing that I do not like: hypocrisy.

    True followers of Christ Jesus must be pure in our faith and truthful in our witness.

    (As a reminder to any who have not followed my Lenten series of posts, now (the 40 days prior to Resurrection Sunday) is a time for Christians to put down our mask of hypocrisy and put on the righteousness of repentance – a returning to Christ Jesus, who suffered the penalty for our sins and was crucified as Perfect Sacrifice for those who believe.  We will get to the message of hope and the redemption of the Cross closer to Easter, God willing.)

    hypocriteAn earlier part of this series on Covenant and Truth concluded with an introductory thought on christian hypocrisy.

    covenant definition

    We then proceeded to examine the witness of christian marriage and of christian families (including teens).

    Today we will take on a couple of issues as they relate to hypocrisy by BOTH christians & non-Christians.

    Let’s begin, however, with the entire scripture of Jesus on the ‘log in your own eye.’

    Luke 6:39  He also told them a parable: “Can a blind man lead a blind man?

    christian hypocrite: Can you lead a non-believer to Christ while you remain blind to your own sin?

    Will they not both fall into a pit?

    Are you BOTH not destined to the pit of Hell if you do not repent?

    40 A disciple is not above his teacher, but everyone when he is fully trained will be like his teacher.

    Are you “fully trained,” dear brother (sister) in the Lord? Are you like Jesus, whom we call Lord? 

    God knows the truth and others witness the truth of your proclaimed purity.

    41 Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye?

    An unbeliever will be the first to ask this question of christian hypocrites. The unbeliever ALSO sees the darkness and sin in others, while failing to acknowledge the sin in their own life.

    No difference (except that their hypocrisy is not also witness against Christ).

    42 How can you say to your brother, ‘Brother, let me take out the speck that is in your eye,’ when you yourself do not see the log that is in your own eye?

    A reminder: our responsibility to a Christian brother, member of the family of Christ Jesus, is higher than to an unbeliever. No need to point out the sins to the unbeliever, while failing to bring to light your own.

    You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take out the speck that is in your brother’s eye.

    A Tree and Its Fruit

    43 “For no good tree bears bad fruit, nor again does a bad tree bear good fruit, 44 for each tree is known by its own fruit. For figs are not gathered from thornbushes, nor are grapes picked from a bramble bush. 45 The good person out of the good treasure of his heart produces good, and the evil person out of his evil treasure produces evil, for out of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaks.

    What is the fruit of Christian marriage?

    A lasting covenant, witness to Christ’s love for us.

    What is the fruit of Christian parents?

    Godly children; godly teens; godly sons to marry and godly daughters to be given in marriage.

    HOW ARE WE DOING?

    • As a church?
    • As a husband or wife claiming Christ?
    • As a child or teen under the roof and authority of a Christian household?

    Truth is (as you can see from our previous articles and statistics) christians are failing miserably in our witness of Christ.

    The fruit is rotting.

    To be continued…

  • Godly christian teens?

    Godly christian teens?

    (Almost) Everyone’s Doing It

    A SURPRISING NEW STUDY SHOWS CHRISTIANS ARE HAVING PREMARITAL SEX AND ABORTIONS
    AS MUCH (OR MORE) THAN NON-CHRISTIANS.
    Eighty percent of young, unmarried Christians have had sex.
    Two-thirds have been sexually active in the last year. Even though, according to a recent Gallup poll, 76 percent of evangelicals believe sex outside of marriage is morally wrong. source
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    “What used to be happening in high school is now happening in eighth grade,” DiMarco said.

    Even Christian teens are not immune to the rampant sexual temptations bombarding their generation.

    “I found no difference between Christian girls and non-Christian girls,” DiMarco said. “No difference, except that they talked a good show and acted really nice in front of me.”

    When she probed deeper she found that Christian teens were engaging in the same sexual behaviors as their non-Christian friends. source

    The problem that she has found with abstinence pledges is that teens have misconceptions about what it means to be a virgin. “Teen girls don’t understand what virginity is,” DiMarco says, “so everything except intercourse is considered okay even by Christian girls.”

    “…parents do not fully understand how commonplace these sexual behaviors have become in their children’s generation.

    The teens have been desensitized by the sexual messages on television, in movies, in magazines, and from their friends. But parents would never imagine that these things are taking place.

    Quick facts regarding STDs and adolescent pregnancy

    • Approximately 18.9 million new cases of STDs occur each year.
    • Forty-eight percent of new STD cases in 2000 were among 15- to 24-year-olds.
    • There are currently more than 25 types of STDs; some are curable, others are not.
    • In 2000, approximately 822,000 pregnancies occurred among 15- to 19-year-olds.
    • Seven out of ten adolescent mothers drop out of high school.

    Quick ideas about setting boundaries

    Children and teens need boundaries for their safety. Children should understand the consequences of breaking family rules and boundaries. Consequences should fit the severity of the rule. The following are a few boundaries to discuss with your teen:

    • Curfew
    • Transporting other teens: who or how many people ride in one car together
    • Drinking alcohol or using drugs
    • Drinking alcohol or using drugs and driving
    • Lying to parents or adults in authority
    • Allowing opposite-sex company in bedrooms
    • Having friends over while parents are absent
    • Age at which dating can begin
    • Dating vs. courting: discuss family values and guidelines

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    CHRISTIAN PARENTS:
    Do you need HELP!?
    Many fine organizations provide help, books, materials, counseling, prayer and the love of Christ in getting parents through TRYING to raise godly Christian children. It is NOT an easy job, but the Lord calls on Christian parents to take responsibility for the children we raise – that INCLUDES our teens.
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    Start early. As you can see by the startling statistics, you had better think about SEX in your children’s lives BEFORE they do.
    • IF you didn’t start early, it’s still NOT too late.
    Don’t give up.
    Your son (yes, don’t forget them, even though they don’t get pregnant) or your daughter will bless you for your Biblical guidance in later life when they discover how much damage the sex life of theirs or their friends has caused.
    One of the fine organizations I can recommend for marriage or various family challenges is Family Life Today.
    Here is just one article on this topic:

    Establishing Dating Guidelines for Your Teen

    Full Article

    In light of our reformatted definition of dating, we have the following very general age guidelines for spending time with a friend of the opposite sex (these are for our children still living at home).

    • Doing things together with an approved mixed group of teens away from our home: We have allowed this to begin sometime after age 15.
    • Double dates or group dates: Usually at age 17, maybe earlier.
    • Single dates: These are generally discouraged but allowed in certain circumstances.

    More Beautiful You – Jonny Diaz

    [Song with lyrics]

    What is YOUR witness for Jesus Christ, beloved Christian young woman?
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    What is YOUR witness for Jesus Christ, beloved young man of the Lord’s witness?
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    What is YOUR witness for Jesus Christ as a PARENT of a TEEN in your ‘christian’ household?
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    Proverbs 30

    English Standard Version (ESV)

    11 There are those [There is a generation] who curse their fathers
    and do not bless their mothers.
    12 There are those who are clean in their own eyes
    but are not washed of their filth.