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  • How Should Christians Respond to Grief? – 2

    How Should Christians Respond to Grief? – 2

    In my previous post on grief, I ended with a series of questions about how Christians generally respond. I did not get many responses so I would like to briefly answer my own questions in hopes that it provides some insight for those who may not have much experience dealing with grief.

    1. Let’s look for a moment at the case of Job and how his friends reacted to his tragedy:

      When three of Job’s friends heard of the tragedy he had suffered, they got together and traveled from their homes to comfort and console him…Wailing loudly, they tore their robes and threw dust into the air over their heads to show their grief.  Then they sat on the ground with him for seven days and nights. No one said a word to Job, for they saw that his suffering was too great for words. (Job 2:11-13 excerpts)

      We often give Job’s friends a hard time for their words in later chapters but before they “spoke inaccurately” about God, they sat with Job for 7 days without a word and mourned with him. One of the biggest lessons I learned in school and in my internship was the power of presence. It is often more powerful than any words could ever be.

    2. This will probably go against the instinct of most people but your first comment should NOT attempt to be one of comfort, it should be one of support. When you are dealing with someone who has just recently lost a loved one or gotten a divorce or gone through any kind of struggle, they do not want to hear “it’s ok” because to them, it’s not ok. They often need to hear FIRST that their situation is difficult and they have a right to be sad.
    3. The next thing they need to know is that they’re not alone. They need to HEAR it but it is even better if there is a tangible way to SHOW it. At the church I attended when I was in college, there was an entire committee just for providing food for people who had a sickness or death in the family and another committee for sending cards to members of the church for all occasions, happy and sad. In that small town Baptist church, people always know they are cared for and are not alone but, in a lot of churches, that kind of awareness of individual situations is not there. When you know someone is having a rough time, can you offer to get them groceries or make a meal for them? Maybe you can offer to babysit their kids so they can have alone time. Even something as simple as giving them a non-judgmental listening ear has incredible value. There are many ways, verbal and practical, to help show people that they do not have to go through a difficult situation without support from other believers.
    4. Now, we can remind them of the HOPE we have in Jesus. BUT, be careful how you word that. Don’t discount the fact that what they are going through is difficult but you can tell them that there is a light at the end of the tunnel, even when they can’t see it. Remind them that God blesses those who mourn and that He does promise eternal life for whoever believes in Him but just remember as you tell them that this life is still painful and it’s ok for them to mourn that.
    5. Finally, don’t just pray FOR them, pray WITH them. I am convinced that when tragedy strikes, people either draw closer to God or they push Him away but they never stay in the same place. You could be that influence that pushes them towards God instead of away from Him. I am much less likely to pray when I am in my “Life isn’t fair” mindset so having someone else pray with me is a good way to re-focus on God’s character and his presence in that moment.
  • In God We Trusted – 2

    In God We Trusted – 2

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    Disclaimer & claim:

    WE the PEOPLE of the LORD trust God.

    Nations rise and nations will fall.  The Prophet Jeremiah had warned Judah of their impending fall.

    Lamentations is the record of their fall from the grace and mercy of God.

    Lamentations is indictment of rulers who do not hear the cries of their people or acknowledge the leadership of God.

    HOW? did our nation fall?

    c. 1007 Before Christ – a prophesy of David

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    David’s Lament for Saul and Jonathan

    17 And David lamented with this lamentation over Saul and Jonathan his son, 18 and he said it should be taught to the people of Judah; behold, it is written in the Book of Jashar. He said:

    19 “Your glory, O Israel, is slain on your high places!
    How the mighty have fallen!

    Historical Context

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    THE KINGS

    Jeremiah’s prophetic career spanned the reigns of five kings: Josiah, Jehoahaz, Jehoiakim, Jehoaichin, and Zedekiah. Like the structure of the book, the line of kings speaks of the chaos and growing confusion of the times as four of the five kings had short reigns.

    • Josiah reigned for 31 years, but died at the young age of 39.
    • Jehoahaz reigned for 3 months before the King of Egypt captured him.

    2 Chronicles 36:3 The king of Egypt prevented him from ruling in Jerusalem and imposed on the land a special tax of one hundred talents of silver and a talent of gold.

    • Jehoiakim reigned for 11 years before he died at the age of 36. Early in his reign, Nebuchadnezzar took captive many in the court (Daniel 1:1).

    2 Kings 24:1 During Jehoiakim’s reign, King Nebuchadnezzar of Babylon attacked. Jehoiakim was his subject for three years, but then he rebelled against him. 2 The Lord sent against him Babylonian, Syrian, Moabite, and Ammonite raiding bands; he sent them to destroy Judah, as he had warned he would do through his servants the prophets.

    • Jehoiachin, the son of Jehoiakim, reigned for 3 months before he was captured by Nebuchadnezzar. He and some 10,000 others were transported to Babylon. These were mostly craftsmen and smiths (2 Kings 24:16).
    • Zedekiah, the brother of Jehoahaz and Jehoiakim, then reigned for 11 years. His reign ended with the capture and destruction of Jerusalem (2 Kings 25:6).

    Since Jeremiah’s career began in the 13th year of Josiah’s reign and continued for an unspecified period beyond the fall of Jerusalem, we can infer a career lasting for more than 40 years (for the Prophet Jeremiah, who writes Lamentations after the fall of Jerusalem).

    Lamentations 2

    English Standard Version (ESV)

    The Lord Has Destroyed Without Pity

    2 How the Lord in his anger
    has set the daughter of Zion under a cloud!
    He has cast down from heaven to earth
    the splendor of Israel;
    he has not remembered his footstool
    in the day of his anger.

    2 The Lord has swallowed up without mercy
    all the habitations of Jacob;
    in his wrath he has broken down
    the strongholds of the daughter of Judah;
    he has brought down to the ground in dishonor
    the kingdom and its rulers.

    3 He has cut down in fierce anger
    all the might of Israel;
    he has withdrawn from them his right hand
    in the face of the enemy;
    he has burned like a flaming fire in Jacob,
    consuming all around.

    4 He has bent his bow like an enemy,
    with his right hand set like a foe;
    and he has killed all who were delightful in our eyes
    in the tent of the daughter of Zion;
    he has poured out his fury like fire.

    As Jeremiah had warned Judah before their destruction, a man whose importance is now hidden away from the truths before America’s former trust warned a new nation.

    jonathan edwards and posterJONATHAN EDWARDS was born into a Puritan evangelical household on October 5, 1703, in East Windsor, Connecticut.

    1716-1722) at Yale College, Edwards engaged all manner of contemporary issues in theology and philosophy.

    Edwards committed himself to vindicating his beliefs before the foreign luminaries of the Enlightenment by recasting Calvinism in a new and vital way that synthesized Protestant theology with Newton’s physics, Locke’s psychology, the third earl of Shaftesbury’s aesthetics, and Malebranche’s moral philosophy.

    In 1726, Edwards succeeded his grandfather, Solomon Stoddard, as the pastor of the church in Northampton, Massachusetts, the largest and most influential church outside of Boston.

    “The first and greatest homegrown American philosopher”

    Perry Miller, the grand expositor of the New England mind and founder of the Yale edition of the Works of Jonathan Edwards, described Edwards as the first and greatest homegrown American philosopher.

    Edwards cast theology into “a method entirely new” by showing God’s work as a history structured around God’s scriptural promises and periods of the outpouring of the Spirit. An Humble Attempt to Promote . . .Extraordinary Prayer(1747) was part of a larger movement towards Anglo-American “concerts of prayer” and was an important contribution to millennial thought. Scholars such as Alan Heimert have recognized the signal importance of these works in American history, particularly their contribution to revolutionary ideology.

    A Careful and Strict Inquiry into the Modern Prevailing Notions of that Freedom of Will…”(1754), in which he attempted to prove that the will was determined by the inclination of either sin or grace in the soul. This book, one of the most important works in modern western thought, set the parameters for philosophical debate on freedom and determinism for the next century and a half.

    In late 1757, he accepted the presidency of the College of New Jersey (later Princeton University). While at Princeton, Edwards hoped to complete at least two more major treatises, one that would show “The Harmony of the Old and New Testaments” and the other that would be an experiment in narrative theology, a much expanded treatise on “The History of the Work of Redemption.” However, he did not live to complete these works. After only a few months in Princeton, he died on March 22, 1758, following complications from a smallpox inoculation. He is buried in the Princeton Cemetery.

    John Adams:“What do we mean by the American Revolution? Do we mean the American War? The Revolution was effected before the War commenced. The Revolution was in the hearts and minds of the people; a change in their religious sentiments . . . This radical change in the principles, opinions, sentiments, and affections of the people was the real American Revolution.”

    excerpts from: Jonathan Edwards: A Life by George M. Marsden – review by Dr.  Samuel T. Logan, Jr.

    Edwards wrote and ministered during this “real” American revolution and his theological insights cut right to the quick of the values which define the nation we now call America. In his brilliant analysis of The Ideological Origins of the American Revolution (which volume won both the Pulitzer Prize and the Bancroft Prize for American History)

    To the degree that America, to this day, understands itself as “the land of the free” and to the degree that the highest of all American values and virtues (including some spiritual values and virtues) are defined in terms of freedom and liberty, to that very degree is Edwards’s Freedom of the Will, the most fundamental analysis of American culture. And to the degree that America seeks to export its values to the nations of the earth, to that very degree is Edwards’s The Nature of True Virtue, the most significant biblical critique of current global political and social issues.

    As for our founding fathers, in God they trusted.

    Returning to Jeremiah’s lament for Judahjeremiah-21st c

    17 The Lord has done what he purposed;
    he has carried out his word,
    which he commanded long ago;
    he has thrown down without pity;
    he has made the enemy rejoice over you
    and exalted the might of your foes.

    19 “Arise, cry out in the night,
    at the beginning of the night watches!
    Pour out your heart like water
    before the presence of the Lord!
    Lift your hands to him
    for the lives of your children,
    who faint for hunger
    at the head of every street.”

    Jeremiah/Contemporary timeline source:

    22 You summoned as if to a festival day
    my terrors on every side,
    and on the day of the anger of the Lord
    no one escaped or survived;
    those whom I held and raised
    my enemy destroyed.

  • Africa: Faith in a House of Cards

    Africa: Faith in a House of Cards

    Americans, Europeans, many South Americans, South Africans, Australians, upper class Indians and upper class Asians of countries like China and Japan are very blessed.

    Even though we may be poor compared to most of our own countrymen, most ‘relatively rich’ Christians (like us) do NOT see and hear the great need of many brothers and sisters in Christ, let alone the great needs of Christian missions to others in countries and states hostile to Christ Jesus.

    How often do you hear of Christian Missions in places like Cameroon and Central African Republic?

    Central African RepublicThe MAP of our world changes continually, nowhere more radically than Africa. The reasons do not change: greed, power and control by religion (especially Islam, but also others).

    Here is a better current perspective to ‘world history’ than a schooling from ancient textbooks of the 20th century. Visit any continent (courtesy BBC country profiles) like this one for Africa. Facts & History will reveal an ongoing battle of Islamist radicals and others to displace and defeat Christians.

    As you may know from Sudan and other troubled places in Africa, greed and radical religious beliefs know NO boundaries. Patient authoritarian Islamist leaders aggravate and stir the hatreds of hot spots from their comfortable places in Saudi Arabia, Iran and many other countries.

    Persecuted Christians on all continents and the Christian missions which bring the Gospel of Christ Jesus to the unsaved have been on my heart for many months now.  Many fine missionary organizations support these through our many small contributions though our local churches.

    Check with your own church and you can often find ways to contribute even more to these MANY needs.  Just one example of our church is Operation Christmas Child.

    I know you know John 3:16; do you know 1 John 3:16? (& 17 & 18)?

    For truth we do not hear and in deed we have no charity (agapē).

    The Middle East typically receives the most press. As a reminder, many of the troubled countries are part of N. Africa.

    On occasion we will hear of troubles of Somalia, Kenya, or other African peoples in struggles against the tyranny of evil, greed, military force,  rebels, anarchists, Islamists,  forces of  ‘nature’, famine, war… etc. etc… while mention of the daily struggles and needs of the poor remain rare.

    MISSIONARIES NARROWLY ESCAPE COUP IN AFRICA

    Posted by  on Friday, May 10, 2013

    Here is the full story you never hear from just five months ago. Please pray for and support the missions of these faithful Christians.

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    One might be shocked to learn that some areas of Africa have become mighty fortresses for Christ, but great need persists for these faithful Christian brothers and sisters, especially for many abandoned children who would have no hope were it not for the love of these faithful Christians.

    Ghana, a country once known as a place where Portuguese and British ruled and exported slaves into other parts of the world has now become a place where the freedom of Christianity is sent into other parts of Africa.

    Never-the-less, Americans, Europeans and others do not realize the extent of poverty in nations such as Ghana, where the average annual income is only $1,410, compared to $48,620 in the US or $36,010 USD in Hong Kong or $80,440 in Qutar, a place for Arabian princes and World Capitalists to shelter their considerable wealth.

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    Refugees from war-torn African nations and abandoned aids babies of immoral powerful men depend on the support, love and charity of Christian community and even homes of many compassionate Christians in places like Ghana.

    They depend on the financial support of Christian missions and a few individual Christian churches and missions.

    Please consider support and prayer for one of these welcomed into the love of Christ Jesus.

    These are the faces of orphans living in a Christian home in Ghana and provided for by a poor worker in a nearby home for other orphans.

    These are the faces of Christian love.  These little ones are also the faces of Christian need for a Christian sister with barely enough to keep food on their table.

    I will close with a personal story of Christian love from this beloved sister in Christ from just last SUNDAY, 6 OCTOBER, 2013 (a day our church feasts every month after first Sunday communion.)

    Ghana-Tracywe met Tracy last Sunday when she was at church Alone!

    She didn’t want to go back home because she was denied from eating food for the last four days as punishment for the not carrying her auntie’s baby!

    she preferred sleeping at church than going back home, so we went with her and talked to her auntie about it!

    she is now living a happy and hopeful life! Thank You for your prayers!!

    Who else will intervene for Jesus when others turn away the little children?

    If you can help in any small way, in addition to prayer, please visit the link behind  “Child Passion Children’s Home, with Patti Crabtree Brown and 22 others. we follow the biblical directive to rescue, love and care for orphans. We believe that when we do, we are following Christ’s commandment and are acting as His hands and feet.”

    Jesus said: And whoever gives one of these little ones even a cup of cold water because he is a disciple, truly, I say to you, he will by no means lose his reward.” – Matthew 10:42