Tag: grave

  • Another Day of Silence at the Grave of a Loved One

    Another Day of Silence at the Grave of a Loved One

    It’s a familiar scene — loved ones mourning their loss in silence once the dead body can no longer be embraced by eyes or arms.

    All that remains are our fleeting memories of a life which has passed into lifeless dust. I have been there. Likely you have as well.

    two Roman soldiers standing by fire at night by Jesus' tomb

    It happens that the Beloved Body laid to rest previously is Jesus Christ.

    Perhaps you missed these mourners outside the tomb of Joseph of Arimathea where the remains of Jesus were sealed. In our own grief we lament how such a public spectacle of Jesus’ Crucifixion on a Roman Cross could have been inflicted on the Son of God.

    A Day of the silence of the Passover Lamb

    “An evil and adulterous generation demands a sign, but no sign will be given to it except the sign of Jonah.” Then he left them and went away.

    Matthew 16:4 CSB

    Now the LORD had prepared a great fish…

    (Certain death: Three days & three nights away.)

    Now the LORD had appointed a great fish to swallow Jonah, and Jonah spent three days and three nights in the stomach of the fish.

    Jonah 1:17 – with commentaries

    Perhaps the bereaving Apostles or distraught mourners had recalled this and other sayings of Jesus.

    “A little while, and you will no longer see Me; and again a little while, and you will see Me.”

    John 16:16 NASB
    body of Jesus outside tomb of Joseph with others

    Christ :: The Three Days and the Three Nights

    Don't become too immersed in the discussions of 'days' or 'dates' of Christ's Crucifixion and Resurrection, but for the curious here is an article discussing some of the Jewish calendar issues involved.

    After a brief time of carrying His pierced body from the Cross, Joseph and the others must wait until the completion of the Passover feast and until the day after the Sabbath to return and dutifully complete their burial task.

    We noted several witnesses to Jesus’ crucifixion previously in It is finished.. + Death’s witnesses. John does not list everyone nor does the Apostle include some additional events.

    John has not mentioned Judas Iscariot since his betrayal of the Lord in Gethsemane. Yet Matthew’s Gospel reveals the death of Jesus’ betrayer, the 30 pieces of silver purchasing the field of blood and how it fulfills prophesy.

    3 When Y’hudah, who had betrayed him, saw that Yeshua had been condemned, he was seized with remorse and returned the thirty silver coins to the head cohanim and elders..

    “I sinned in betraying an innocent man to death.”

    the confession of Judas Iscariot – Matthew 27:4 HNV

    5 Hurling the pieces of silver into the sanctuary, he left; then he went off and hanged himself.

    From Crucifixion until Christ’s Resurrection

    Before we proceed to John’s witness of Christ’s Resurrection, let’s linger just one more day to note events and witnesses beyond the tomb where Jesus’ body lay.

    Matthew 27:

    59 And when Joseph had taken the body, he wrapped it in a clean linen cloth, And laid it in his own new tomb, which he had hewn out in the rock: and he rolled a great stone to the door of the sepulchre, and departed.

    two Roman soldiers standing by fire at night by Jesus' tomb

    61 And there was Mary Magdalene, and the other Mary, sitting over against the sepulchre.

    What a sorrowful scene…

    And Matthew records:

    62 Now the next day, that followed the day of the preparation, the chief priests and Pharisees came together unto Pilate..

    64 Command therefore that the sepulchre be made sure until the third day..

    65 Pilate said to them, “You have a guard; go, make it as secure as you know how.” And they went and made the tomb secure with the guard, sealing the stone.

    Luke 23:

    And a man named Joseph, who was a member of the Council, a good and righteous man (he had not consented to their plan and action), a man from Arimathea, a city of the Jews, who was waiting for the kingdom of God; this man went to Pilate and asked for the body of Jesus.

    And he took it down and wrapped it in a linen cloth, and laid Him in a tomb cut into the rock, where no one had ever lain. It was the preparation day, and the Sabbath was about to begin.

    Now the women who had come with Him out of Galilee followed, and saw the tomb and how His body was laid. Then they returned and prepared spices and perfumes.

    (Note the brief amount of time these women John names had to see the tomb, return with spices and just begin the wrapping of Jesus’ slain body.)

    • Luke tells us (Luke 23:56b) why they had to leave Jesus’ body until later.

    And on the Sabbath they rested according to the commandment.

    But on the first day of the week, at early dawn, they came to the tomb bringing the spices which they had prepared.

    Luke 24:1 NASB
    3 crosses, cave tomb with stone rolled away
    • The Apostle Matthew tells how Joseph wrapped Jesus’ crucified body in a clean line cloth and laid the Lord in a place he had prepared for his own death.
    • Then Matthew tells us (27:60b NASB):

    and he rolled a large stone against the entrance of the tomb and went away.

    • Matthew, the Disciple of Jesus also records the sad scene of silent mourning, where Joseph must have recalled these two women who lingered there.

    61 And there was Mary Magdalene, and the other Mary, sitting over against the sepulchre.

    Joseph rolled a great stone to the door of the sepulcher, and departed.
    To be continued..
    .. at dawn the first day of the week ...
  • Lazarus – HELP from the grave

    Lazarus – HELP from the grave

    Help us, O God of our salvation, for the glory of Your name;
    And deliver us and forgive our sins for Your name’s sake.

    עָזְרֵ֤נוּ אֱלֹ֘הֵ֤י יִשְׁעֵ֗נוּ עַל־דְּבַ֥ר כְּבֹֽוד־שְׁמֶ֑ךָ וְהַצִּילֵ֥נוּ וְכַפֵּ֥ר עַל־֝חַטֹּאתֵ֗ינוּ לְמַ֣עַן שְׁמֶֽךָ׃

    Psalm 79:9 – NASB, Masoretic Text

    Where does my help come from?

    I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help.

    My help cometh from the Lord, which made heaven and earth.

    Psalm 121:1-2 KJV
    map from Bethany ascent to city of Jerusalem

    Each year as the festival crowds approached Jerusalem, weary and faithful Jews making the pilgrimage would pause to rest in places nearby before their walking ascent up the hill leading to the Temple.

    Bethany would have been one of these places – a town where Jesus would stay with a good friend and later perform a sign the He IS the Messiah of Israel.

    John 11:

    Now a certain man was sick, Lazarus of Bethany…

    John’s Gospel begins by mentioning the village along with details of Mary and Martha which do not happen until later, but of course have already happened by the time John writes his Good News to the churches and unbelievers.

    Although we have just read of a story from the festival of Hanukkah where Jesus may have also stayed over at Bethany (we cannot be certain), I remind us that John’s Gospel is not strictly chronoligical.

    The importance here relates to the characters – the real people of this family living in the village of Bethany outside Jerusalem. And what we are about to witness is not only a miracle and sign of Jesus, but the human love of true friends of this family by the Lord.

    A messenger asks Jesus to help a friend

    3 So the sisters sent a messenger to tell Yeshua, “Lord, your close friend is sick.”

    These friends knew where to find Jesus, where He was preaching.

    Jesus most likely had already been in this part of Judea, but departed for Samaria and other distant places as was His custom traveling from town to town preaching the Good News.

    4 When Jesus heard it, he said, “This sickness will not end in death but is for the glory of God, so that the Son of God may be glorified through it.”

    John gives us an important background to their friendship without providing specific details of where Jesus was teaching, but he tells us something important about this family in Jesus’ earthly relationships.

    5 Now Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus.

    John 11:5

    It is the same description John uses so often to describe the Incarnate Lord Jesus – ἀγαπάω – agapaō ‘of persons to welcome, to entertain, to be fond of, to love dearly.

    Christians are to love the world in this same way Jesus loved Mary and Martha and Lazarus. For John uses this same word to describe how God ‘loved’ humans made in his image.

    “For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life.

    John 3:16 NASBagapaō

    Yet the messenger might have thought Jesus’s response to be somewhat dismissive. “This sickness is not to end in death…”

    6 Yet, when Yeshua heard that Lazarus was sick, he stayed where he was for two more days. Then, after the two days, Yeshua said to his disciples, “Let’s go back to Judea.”

    What do we fear?

    Even in the unexpected crisis of these last days what does man fear most?

    Death!

    It was the death of their brother Mary and Martha feared. And the Apostles also fear capture and death due to several previous attempts by Jerusalem’s religious officials to kill their friend Jesus. The Disciples fear death even though Jesus had demonstrated His power over nature time and time again.

    8 The disciples said to him, “Rabbi, not long ago the Jews wanted to stone you to death. Do you really want to go back there?”

    9 Yeshua answered, “Aren’t there twelve hours of daylight? Those who walk during the day don’t stumble, because they see the light of this world. However, those who walk at night stumble because they have no light in themselves.”

    Jesus again assures His own Apostles that He is the Light of the world and reminds that Jerusalem’s leaders have no light of God in their actions.

    Lazarus

    … and after that He said to them, “Our friend Lazarus has fallen asleep; but I go, so that I may awaken him out of sleep.”

    Of course the Apostles continue in their regular banter questioning the Lord as to His motives. Yet before we proceed to Jesus’ sign, let’s take a closer look at His friend Lazarus.

    Λάζαρον –

    Λάζαρος
    Lazaros – Lazarus = “whom God helps” (a form of the Hebrew name Eleazar)

    Jesus also tells a parable of another man, Lazarus, a poor beggar who died and God helped.

    אֶלְעָזָר

    el·ä·zär’  – same meaning in Hebrew was the name of Aaron’s son, also a Levite Priest, as well as several others in this Bible.

    Clearly, if Jesus is going to help Lazarus it is God who helps the man close to death.

    Lazarus is dead

    Jesus has not spelled it out in His first mention to the Apostles as they attempt to convince the Lord not to return to Judea.

    12 Then the disciples said to him,

    “Lord, if he has fallen asleep, he will get well.”

    (The Disciples certainly do not care to risk returning to Bethany near Jerusalem.)

    14 Then Yeshua told them plainly,

    “Lazarus has died, but I’m glad that I wasn’t there so that you can grow in faith. Let’s go to Lazarus.”

    How does Jesus know these things?

    Can a mere man know such truths?

    Of course the Disciples had witnessed such knowledge possible only from God before. Yet like us, they lack faith that Jesus can take authority over the situation as it involves their mortal lives.

    16 Thomas, who was called Didymus, said to the rest of the disciples,

    “Let’s go so that we, too, can die with Yeshua.”

    Isn’t that how we feel when confronted by death?

    How will Jesus help us, we ask ourselves?

    Can the Son of Man HELP a man already dead?

    That’s the question lurking in the back of our minds when we pray to God.

    Can God help me even though I am dead? Will the Lord keep me from death?

    Jesus returns to Bethany and eventually Jerusalem to answer the immediate questions of Lazarus’ death, the soon-to-be asked questions about the Disciples’ deaths due to following Jesus and most importantly our eternal questions about death appointed to each mortal man and our only hope of resurrection to the Light of eternal life.

    To be continued, God-willing...
  • A Picture of Heaven – Chapter 13

    A Picture of Heaven – Chapter 13

    “Ashes to ashes, dust to dust…” echoed the near-silent words of the graveside.

    I thought of the stark contrast of the graveside scene to the love and glory of the depiction of Heaven in the little girl’s picture.  I smiled with joy.

    Amen,” the words of the graveside service confirmed in my heart.

    They now seemed to be speaking to my soul, rather than to the clutter of noise in my ears and my thoughts.

    Everyone left the graveside. I watched as the casket was lowered… and then I left.

    +++

    It had always seems too difficult to glorify God on earth. We really do love our sin and hate God.

    Yet that day and one picture had changed everything.

    Jesus was now real. Jesus was now: God in the flesh — flesh and blood, broken and shed for me. His love even for a sinner like me.

    I thought of the picture of Jesus carrying a lamb.

    I thought again of the weightier significance of a childhood song:

    Jesus loves me

    This I know

    For the Bible

    Tells me so.

     I am weak

    But He is strong

    It’s for His love

    That I now long.

    I think the kid’s verse is different, but this is what I was thinking.  It’s what I was singing in my heart.  And I had His joy – like a lamb warmly held in His arms.  I was safe from the world now.

    Jesus loves me, this I know… and I had a little girl to thank… a little girl with a picture of heaven.

    +++

    Conclusion to follow tomorrow; but in case you missed any chapters or want to SHARE: 

    A Picture of Heaven – prologue.